Why Do Brides Throw the Bouquet? The Origins of a Whimsical Wedding Tradition

We’ve all seen the moment: the bride turns her back, a crowd gathers, and with a dramatic toss, the bouquet goes flying. Cheers, laughter — maybe a bit of chaos. But have you ever wondered why brides throw the bouquet in the first place?

Like many wedding traditions, it’s more than just a fun photo op — the bouquet toss has roots in some surprising history.

A Superstitious Start

The tradition began in medieval Europe, where it was believed that touching the bride — or even tearing a piece of her dress — would bring good luck. Guests would crowd her, eager to grab a token of her “bridal magic” for themselves.

To escape the chaos, clever brides began tossing their bouquets as a distraction — so they could make a graceful getaway.

A Symbol of Passing the Torch

Over time, the bouquet toss became more symbolic. Instead of trying to steal a scrap of the bride’s dress, unmarried women would line up to catch her flowers. The belief? That whoever caught the bouquet would be the next to marry.

It turned a moment of superstition into one of hope and celebration — and maybe a little competitive fun.

A Moment of Play and Joy

Today, some brides embrace the tradition with humor and delight. Others skip it altogether or reinvent it — tossing a bouquet to all guests, giving it to someone special, or keeping it for themselves as a keepsake.

So, Why Do Brides Throw the Bouquet?

Originally to protect themselves. Then to pass on good luck. And now? Maybe just because it brings a joyful, light-hearted moment to a day filled with meaning.

Whatever your take, the bouquet is more than just flowers — it’s part of your story.

Whether you want one to toss, one to keep, or one to press between pages and remember forever, we’re here to create the flowers that feel just right for you.

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